To: My “Friends” On Facebook

Stormy San Juan

I wonder if some of my “friends” on Facebook realize that I am, indeed, on Facebook. I see what you post. I’m also not white (in case you missed that). When you post derogatory things about Black people, you’re talking about ME. I see that. When you say my life doesn’t matter, I see that. […]

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The 35 Year Old Undergrad Student

I am about to be a 35-year-old college graduate. Not the 35-year-old that graduated from college 10 years ago. Thousands fit that. Millions fit that. But not me. I am the 35-year-old that messed around for years and finally got it together and is going to be walking across the stage to receive my very […]

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Reaching for the Moon

I just read that the media believes Prince died from AIDS. I don’t know how true it is but I do know one thing. He definitely lived his life to the fullest. Whether you agree with his lifestyle or not, you can learn from his unyielding desire to reach for the moon…literally. I’ve found myself […]

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Big Girl Sizes Wanted

I’m going to make this short and sweet and to the point. This is a post about inclusion. There are lots of organizations that I love to support. When they don’t have shirts that will fit me it makes me think they don’t really want my support. I know this probably isn’t the case but […]

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Sorry My Weight Offends You

If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you already know that I struggle with weight. I’ve struggled my whole life. I think that people sometimes forget that I know I’m larger than average. Guess what. I know my size. I’m sorry my weight offends you. I recently had the pleasure of being informed […]

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